Do you make a bunch of resolutions for the new year and by January 14th can barely
remember what they were? Do you make the same resolutions year after year, only
to fail?
You are not alone!
Millions of people make resolutions each year and less than half of them are able
to stick with them for six months!
So, how do you make it stick? There are no easy answers, but there are some guidelines
that can improve your likelihood of success.
First recognize resolutions for what they are...goals. (Just like your goal to get
out of debt with CAF!) As with all goals it is important to be SMART. Setting SMART
goals improves the probability you will achieve success. Each SMART goal (or resolution)
includes five points of reference to consider as you set your goals.
These include:
Specific—Using positive language, a goal should be easily understood and
include a definite expected result. (Which is more specific? - ‘I will follow
my budget’; or ‘I will develop my financial skills to be better able
to stick to my budget and make informed credit choices that support my long term
goals ’?)
Measurable—A SMART goal is measurable. The SMART goal utilizes targets to
curb or redirect efforts as necessary to ensure final results meet your specific
expectations. (For example: ‘I will become debt free’; or ‘I
will become debt free by making all my monthly payments to Credit Advisors Foundation
on time for my debt management program (DMP) and monitoring my progress on a monthly
basis by reviewing and comparing my creditor and CAF statements.)
Attainable—Although goals may present a challenge, goals must not be out
of reach or unrealistic. (Let’s face it; if you have never run a marathon
before and you do not intend to train, odds are you will not be able to attain your
goal of winning the New York Marathon.) But you can get out of debt!
Relevant—A SMART goal needs to be relevant. Goals must maintain and support
personal values. SMART goals will strengthen your dreams and purpose. (‘I
intend to use all my resources to be debt free at the end of 2007 by accelerating
my DMP with CAF’.)
Timely—While timelines need to be realistic, they also ensure that targets
are met without delays and final results are appropriate and beneficial. What other
tips do professional goal setters suggest? First, you can make a resolution anytime,
not just January 1st.
Keep track of your goals, tape reminders on your mirror (or better yet, in your
wallet) and plan ahead to handle obstacles.
Have a strong initial commitment to make a change, and be persistent. If your first
attempt does not succeed—do not give up—give it another go! Never
give up on your goal because of one slip (or even more) in your progress. If you
stumble, reassess your goal using the SMART guidelines to be sure you have created
a solid working goal. If it is important enough to have made a goal about, it is
important enough to try again.
While you don’t have to explain the details of your plan, sharing the anticipated
goal result with those around you, can provide support and encourage your efforts,
as well as, assist you to stay motivated and focused.
Try to form a support team. Find like minded goal-setters and ask them to share
their techniques for success. A great potential resource to help build your support
team would be anyone, friends or family that may have referred you or that you referred
to CAF for financial education assistance?
Also, don’t forget to reward yourself! Small rewards at target points along
the way, and a final reward for accomplishing your goal are also great motivators.
Remember, rewards don’t have to cost a lot - or anything at all, for that
matter, to be effective.
Lastly, keep your sense of humor! Sometimes the only way we can keep striving toward
a goal is to be able to laugh at ourselves and all the different ways we have learned
that don’t work to help us in our efforts of achievement. And then to continue
to strive forward toward the goal.