Heraclitus said, “There is nothing permanent except change.” That sounds
about right doesn’t it? We see change all around us every day, some we create
and others we seem to have very little control over. Meanwhile, we are told, “Life
is change. Growth is optional”. There seems little way to avoid change in
our lives. But what does change have to do with debt management and living credit
smart?
Plenty!!
The first time someone (like you?) contacts Credit Advisors it’s all about
change. Something has already changed in their lives, possibly divorce, loss of
a job, or illness; or they are seeking to make changes, like stop using credit cards,
resolve collection activity, or simply get out from under a seeming mountain of
debt. What about you?

Change can be difficult.
When you joined CAF and began to learn about managing your debt and credit, developing
your budget and debt management program you were attempting to make some BIG changes
in your life. For some of you it was beginning to make timely payments, for others
it was about trying to get off the credit card Ferris wheel. Some of you had never
attempted to live within a budget before and still others were dealing with the
pressure of major medical bills, collection accounts, lost income, or any number
of other changes. So...
How’s it going?
Are you still in the battle? Have you made changes to the way you spend money compared
to the past? Have you changed your perception of shopping with credit cards and
moved toward a cash economy? Are you taking your lunch to work instead of eating
out? Have you explained to your kids that all of you (your entire family) are working
toward a brighter tomorrow? Are you feeling stressed? How’s your motivation
level? Has it been as easy as you hoped it would be?
Why is it so ‘crazy’ difficult to make changes - especially long term
ones that involve money or credit? Are you thinking, “Nobody told me how hard
and lonely change is.” No, they probably didn’t. Change can be
difficult.
Are you the only one who struggles? No, no and again, no. Change is difficult for
many, if not all of us at different times. It doesn’t come easy. Of course,
your folks probably told you that most goods things don’t - but how much help
is that when you find yourself knee deep in real change? Some reassurance may be
found in recognizing that every one of us at some point must make an extra effort
to overcome obstacles that block our attempts to maintain the changes necessary
to reach our ultimate goals.
How do you overcome the
roadblocks on the journey
of change?
Sometimes, at the beginning of a change effort, because motivation is high, we may
not perceive that a long-term change can become more challenging down the road.
Yet, on the other hand, some folks never get past that initial commitment to change.
Why is change so difficult? It is difficult because change upsets the applecart
- because it is change, because it is different. We feel awkward, self-conscious,
alone. We feel a loss of control. We may perceive change as criticism about how
we have handled things in the past. Sometimes our self-confidence slips. Most difficult
of all, we can lose sight of what it is we wish to accomplish through change, the
coming benefits from successful change and focus instead on what we perceive we
are losing or having to give up.
We question ourselves and our wisdom. We begin to doubt. Concerns arise. What’s
wrong with how things are now? How will change, change me? Will I be able
to change? Is this the right time? What happens if it doesn’t work? Am I making
progress? What do I do now?
So, how do you overcome the roadblocks on the journey of change? By changing your
mind.
What do we mean? As Albert Einstein said, “We cannot solve our problems with
the same thinking we used when we created them.”
Accordingly, we change the way we think about change. All we know about change is
that change is constant and on going. Change is not a destination. Change is the
journey itself. Because change is hard work and demanding, we need to remember and
find a way to reinforce the vision of what we wish to achieve.
What was it for you? Getting rid of collection calls? Overcoming high interest rates?
Seeing some reduction in the balances of your credit accounts? Reducing the stress
you faced each morning when you woke, if you actually got to sleep after worrying
most the night? Or was it the broader goal of eliminating your debt?
Reaching such goals, changing our situations, and our behaviors, calls for radical
change. Radical change requires us to learn new ways of being and of thinking. And
it requires support and reinforcement. Are you taking advantage of all the opportunities
available to support your radical change efforts?
What does CAF offer?
This newsletter, Defeat Debt, offers monthly ideas for aiding your efforts to create
a debt free life. Our member’s website offers you opportunity to review your
program and update your accounts with the most up to the minute information. Our
e-newsletter, DebtEdge shares credit and debt information on a bi-weekly basis keeping
you up to speed and in the know about new ways to support your change efforts. CAF
educational seminars and Client Advisory Meetings, open to all client members and
the public, are also an excellent way to stay aware of the impact credit, debt and
change can have on your life, as well as gain support on your journey. In addition,
the certified credit counselors in the CAF client care unit are always available
to discuss your progress and/or any difficulties you face in achieving your goals.
Only you can reach out and take hold of the support you need to make the most positive
radical changes in your life. No one can do it for you – but you can do it! Stay
on the journey! When it comes to changes involving credit and debt, partner with
CAF and make use of all your opportunities to develop the strength and skills you
need to achieve your change goals. Those further along the journey want you to know,
the end result you seek is worth its weight in gold.